But as soon as I said the words “pedal steel guitar,” he became extremely negative, saying that it was only a country instrument and was totally inappropriate for playing classical music. He actually used the phrase "No, Not the pedal steel guitar, I hate that instrument," and said that he "...does not want to hear it."
He doesn’t even want me to audition, and has pretty much guaranteed that no matter what I do, he’s not going to give me the gig. The only reason he consented to let me audition in the first place is that I dropped the name of the violist in my chamber music trio on him and she is so widely respected that he had to give his consent.
There is a word to describe this attitude: prejudice. The word means to pre-judge something without having all or even any of the information needed to make that judgment. The word is usually reserved for people who harbor negative attitudes about people who are in some way different from themselves, like those of a different race or religion. But it’s possible to pre-judge anything, and in this case, the guy has pre-judged me on the basis of the fact that I play the pedal steel guitar, which he does not consider a serious musical instrument.
I’m really ticked off by his attitude, and I’m temped to tell him to stick his audition where the sun doesn’t shine, if you know what I mean. But I’m going to make nice to him and do the audition anyway. I have 3 reasons.
#1, I just may change his mind. The guy has never heard and kind of steel playing except on country records. We’ve all heard the expression that there’s no fanatic like a convert. If I can convert him, I’ll have an ally.
#2, This will be my first time playing with a symphony orchestra. It is bound to be a learning experience of some sort. I will undoubtedly learn something that will help me in the future.
#3, Even if I don’t get the gig, I will be introducing myself and the steel to the musicians in the orchestra. If I make a good impression on them, it will help the next time I do this.
Even if I don’t get the gig, it’s still a worthwhile thing to do. But I hate it that the guy has such a negative impression about our instrument, and is so pre-judgmental.