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Damir Besic


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Nashville,TN.
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 11:01 am    
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https://youtu.be/UVXGVbWF8a0


tell your loved ones how much you love them every day, like it is the last time you see them, because, you never know ... I didn't, and my heart and soul are hurting...
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Randy Schneider


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SW New Mexico, USA
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 11:17 am    
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So sorry for your loss Damir. Prayers for you and your family.
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Will Houston

 

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Tempe, Az
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 11:54 am    
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Sorry for your loss. Liked your video and music, very nice.
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Jerry Overstreet


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Louisville Ky
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 12:34 pm    
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Condolences on the loss of your father Damir. Nice musical reflection there.
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Damir Besic


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Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 12:44 pm    
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thank you so much guys, instead to leave him with a big hug and a kiss, I left without a word after a stupid argument... I did talked to him on the phone after that, and I did told him I love him, he couldn't talk due to his recent stroke... I will never forgive myself for acting like an stupid idiot Sad
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Danny Bentley

 

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Hendersonville Tn
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 12:46 pm    
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Sending prayers for you and family!
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Clark Doughty


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KANSAS
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 1:08 pm     Your Dad
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Just remember the happy times with your dad. Forgiveness works both ways.....praying for you....clark
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gary pierce


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Rossville TN
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 2:21 pm    
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Very sorry for your loss Damir.
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Carl Williams


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Oklahoma
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 2:34 pm    
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Damir,
My most sincere condolences. I've never had the opportunity to meet you but from a distance, your Dad raised a fine son and gentleman. Don't be too hard on yourself. Carl
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Chris Boyd

 

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Leonia,N.J./Charlestown,R.I.
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 3:30 pm    
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Be kind to yourself as we all fall short in some way or another...my sympathies to you Damir...
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Michael Douchette


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Gallatin, TN (deceased)
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 4:02 pm    
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Damir, I'm so sorry. My prayers are with you, my friend.
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Damir Besic


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Nashville,TN.
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 4:03 pm    
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thank you my dear friends, thank you very much Sad
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Lee Baucum


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McAllen, Texas (Extreme South) The Final Frontier
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 4:34 pm    
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I still have visits from my Dad every so often, in my dreams.

Lee, from South Texas
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Jeff Garden


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Center Sandwich, New Hampshire, USA
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 4:38 pm    
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I am so sorry for your sad news, Damir, and send condolences to you and your family.
My Dad passed away suddenly and I was never able to say goodbye but over time, I learned to focus on the happy memories we had together and it helped with the healing.
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Donna Dodd


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Acworth, Georgia, USA
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 5:51 pm    
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Damir,
Your music dedication to your dad is beautiful! I am so sorry for your loss, and can tell that you are really hurting. I'm glad you were able to talk on the phone before he died. It's not just the words or a hug that convey love, you know. He knew you loved him. I pray that you and your family will experience peace as you grieve your father's passing.
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J R Rose

 

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Keota, Oklahoma, USA
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 6:32 pm    
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So sorry to hear this Damir. It is a very sad time for you. I wish you the Best and My Prayers go out to you and your whole family. May God Bless & Keep You. J.R.
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Billy Easton

 

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Nashville, TN USA
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 6:49 pm    
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Damir
My condolences to you on your loss. I hope you can forgive yourself for your strained relationship. I would bet your dad would not want you to punish yourself either. May you find peace and God bless you.

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Jim Cohen


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Philadelphia, PA
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 7:27 pm    
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My condolences to you, Damir.
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Herb Steiner

 

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Spicewood TX 78669
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 7:53 pm    
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Condolences, Damir. Your message is so true. Never pass up an opportunity to tell your loved ones that you love them. One day that opportunity will be gone.
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Todd Goad


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Gray, Georgia, USA
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 8:19 pm     God Bless this family in their time of need, Amen.
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Damir, I'm sorry to hear of your father's passing. He knew you loved him, just as you knew he loved you. We all have some moments we're not to proud of, but in the end you made right and that is what truly matters. You and your family will be in my prayers in the days to come. Take care and God Bless my friend.
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Doug Earnest


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Branson, MO USA
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 8:24 pm    
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I said a prayer for you and your father as I watched that wonderful video you composed. The same thing happened to me. Don't dwell on it. In the big scheme of eternity it doesn't make any difference. Best wishes and sincere sympathy to you, my friend.
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Norman Watson

 

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Broken Arrow,Ok.
Post  Posted 16 Oct 2016 9:11 pm     Father
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My sincere sympathy for your loss Damir. Don't be too hard on yourself. As was posted before, we all have things we would do differently the second time around but the result may be no different. They're is a grand plan for us all that we don't control.
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Walter Stettner


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Vienna, Austria
Post  Posted 17 Oct 2016 12:12 am    
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My condolences, Damir. I know it hurts, lost my Dad 9 years ago and still feel it.

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Will VanHoye

 

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West Virginia USA
Post  Posted 17 Oct 2016 5:39 am     my dad past away at 82
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So sorry to hear the Prayers for the family
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Charlie McDonald


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Post  Posted 17 Oct 2016 5:46 am    
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My biggest sympathies for you, Damir.

I didn't get to say goodbye to my dad either; he and I weren't conversant about love, but I know how he felt about me,
and I think he knew how I felt about him. Still I remember the big hole in my middle that I experienced for quite a while.

The things Donna says are true. Forgiveness comes, and it's mostly forgiving ourselves,
and then one wonders if there was anything to forgive.
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